Do you believe in Karma? The Hindu law states that every act done, no matter how
insignificant, will eventually return to the doer with equal impact. Good will
be returned with good; evil with evil.
And since
Hindu’s believe in reincarnation, karma knows no simple birth/death boundaries.
If good or evil befall you, it is because of something you did in this or a
previous lifetime.
As a
Christian, I don’t agree with the latter, but I think that there are some
biblical principles that could be tied up with karma.
In Luke 6
Jesus talks to his disciples and teaches them about loving your enemies. He
states that you should “28bless those who curse you, pray for those who
mistreat you . . . 30give to everyone who asks you and if anyone takes what belongs to you,
do not demand it back. 31Do to others as you would have them do to you.
There, in verse 31, is where I find the connection to karma.
Do unto others, as you would like to be done unto you.
It is this verse that keeps me motivated to help people – I
don’t do it to get shine, or to have something good happen to me in return. I
also will not go into detail about this, because I am not here to brag about
it, I would like to show you the kind acts that has been returned to me.
Card dilemma
A week or two ago I had a really hectic workout session in
the gym, with a personal trainer. I eventually threw up. It might have been
exhaustion, or the fact that I had been off sick the week before, with
sinusitis. Point is, this nausea continued for a little while, which meant that
I was moving very slowly.
In the meantime, Flip phoned me and said that he had also become
ill and that I should buy some soup for dinner. I also wanted to get him some
MedLemon, to speed up recovery. In my grocery bag, there were also some fruits.
All of this equated to about R100 {about $11}.
The day before I received a new bankcard, and at the till, I
tried to pay with this card. It declined about four times, before I decided to
walk with my stiff and nauseated body to the other side of the mall to withdraw
money. I had success.
However, you would note that I had to walk to the other side
of the mall, at a very slow pace, it took me about ten minutes. By the time I
returned to Woolies, a mid-30’s lady was waiting outside for me. “Did you come
right my dear?” she asked. I answered yes, and asked why. She answered: “Well,
I was waiting here for you to see if you came right, because if you didn’t, I
would pay for your things.”
I nearly started crying. How nice of this lady to reach out
to me like this! I phoned my mom, messaged my friends. I was dumbfounded. And
it was awesome.
I did pay for my own stuff, don’t worry.
Another gym story
My second story is much shorter, but also gym related. I
have really long and thick hair, which is sometimes more a curse than a
blessing. Getting that problem sorted today.
Anyway, on this particular day, my hair was being extra
thick and extra stubborn and I couldn’t get into a proper bun or ponytail, it
was just all over the place. A lady in the dressing room sees me struggling
with this thick mess on my head and hands me two extra hairbands.
“Here, you have them,” she says. “I can see you are
struggling.”
I put my hair into a tight braid and had a fantastic
workout.
……..
Doing nice things, doing unto others, as I would like to
receive, should not just be a motivator for me – but to everyone. It’s the
happiness that I got out of moments like these that will keep seeing me picking
up strangers that are struggling next to the road and give them a lift, or dop
other nice things.
Do something nice today. You might get more joy out of it
than the person you are helping.
3 comments:
I always feel better doing things for others, than having things done for me .... same with birthdays, i enjoy celebrating birthdays of friends & loved ones more, than celebrating my own. There is so much more joy in giving than receiving.... Love your blog :)
Vashnie, Durban
Love this post. So many people don't get it. It doesn't take a lot to be nice, but you get SO much in return. xx
I so love this post! Kindness is such a beautiful thing and if we were all a little more kind, the world would be a better place (my word, that is like the ultimate cliché but so true)
I am amazed at the lady who was going to pay for your stuff!
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